LOVE - Meaning for present Generation

Some times the time seems to stop. It never runs at all. At these times. I think what is the motive behind living. Its indeed a tough question to answer. I was not able to find an answer for myself on what is the purpose of my existence all these years. I have no work in this team so far. Doesn’t know where these people are heading to. Life seems very rigid. I don’t know whether it is the right term to use, though.

Yesterday I did some exploration on a school near by. It was good experience. I should say it dint give me much importance. But gave me dominant feeling. Sorry I do not want to disclose why I went to that school.

I called a friend of mine. He was my college mate. He gave me a surprise news. The story goes like this. This friend of mine was a flirt ( think now also). He had many girlfriends at the same time. But he was in love with a girl among these. But I and other friends of the group knew that it could easily break up. But it didn’t. These two gor their marriage registered during the last days of our college. We were shocked at that time. After college we all dispersed to different location. Some into jobs, higher education and others especially girls to a married home life. This friend of mine got a job in a call center. And his wife got admission for masters. It is 2 years now. Today he said that he broke up with his wife and married another girl, a co worker. The reason he said was the first wife tried to ignore him after getting the masters with silly excuses and finally ended up any contacts with him. My dear friend got a crush to this co worker and proposed. And soon getting married.

I wondered how people can change their mind all of a sudden especially in their life partners. Is it any kind of chewing gum? I am not pointing on guys. Its common to both guys and girls. Today’s generation find this very common. But I wonder how it feels after a “REAL MARRIAGE” and a real family with kids. May be it is just a laugh for few minutes when we think about this after long years. Ya sure it is a matter of laugh. But still there shall be some guilt poking our mind when we do something with our spouse what we have done with our GF/BF.

I have had crushes on guys. But never stood for any physical intimacy. That makes no difference between an Indian and Western Worlds. We are Indians. After all we need to keep up our tradition.